French women's satisfaction without sexual relations

A study by Ifop for Passage du Désir found that 63% of French women who have no sexual relations with their spouse report being satisfied with their emotional lives. This challenges common assumptions about the role of sex in relationships and highlights that emotional fulfillment can exist independently of sexual activity.

Prevalence of no sexual relations

The survey also showed that 26% of French women in relationships currently have no sexual relations with their partner. Despite this, many of these women do not feel their romantic happiness is negatively impacted, suggesting that emotional connection can be maintained without sexual intimacy.

Perception of sexuality in relationships

Among women without sexual relations, 44% believe that sexuality is not essential for happiness in love. These women often find balance through other forms of connection, such as conversations, shared projects, and small daily gestures like cooking for their partner or taking walks together.

Physical intimacy without penetration

Not having sexual relations does not always mean the absence of physical intimacy. The study found that 32% of women in relationships without sexual relations have experienced moments of sexual intimacy without penetration in the last year, such as caresses or massages, which can still be meaningful in a relationship.

Changing views on sexuality

The importance of sexuality in romantic happiness has shifted over time. In 2026, 68% of French women consider it important for happiness in love, down from 81% in 2005. While many still see sex as essential, it is no longer viewed as a universal requirement for a fulfilling relationship.

Differences in satisfaction levels

The study also revealed a significant difference in satisfaction levels between sexually active and non-sexually active women. 91% of sexually active women report being satisfied with their emotional lives, compared to 63% of those without relations. The gap is even more pronounced among those who are very satisfied, with 46% of sexually active women compared to 18% of those without relations.

Sources of frustration and desire

For some women, the absence of sexual relations can be a source of frustration. Among those without relations, 67% say they would like more tender gestures and daily attention, while 56% feel the need to communicate more about their desires with their partner. These insights suggest that open dialogue and mutual understanding are key to addressing unmet needs.

Personal expectations and relationship dynamics

The difference in how individuals experience relationships without sexual activity often comes down to personal expectations. When both partners are content, there may be no need for change. However, when one partner feels unfulfilled and the other is accommodating, it can lead to tension and a lack of communication. Ultimately, the study emphasizes that fulfillment in a relationship is not defined by a single standard.