Suppressing emotions at work may be harming women's careers, according to recent reports. Many women hide their stress to avoid being seen as overly emotional, a practice known as "hushed coping" or silent emotional management. This behavior can include maintaining a constant smile or retreating to a quiet space to release feelings privately, such as screaming into a pillow. These strategies are often used to manage workplace pressures while trying to maintain a professional image.
A study involving 115 women working in the public sector found that 55% of them feel their roles require them to conceal their true emotions. Participants frequently hid their anger (43%), irritation (40%), sense of helplessness (37%), and sadness (34%). These findings suggest that emotional suppression is a common experience among women in certain professional environments, potentially affecting their overall well-being and career progression.
Léonie Kennepohl, an expert in female leadership and co-founder of the platform Female x Finance, discusses the "Shut up and work" model, which can hinder women's career advancement. By trying to avoid appearing emotional, women may reduce their visibility and opportunities for recognition, which are crucial for promotions. This silent emotional management can also lead to avoiding difficult conversations, declining opportunities, and tolerating excessive workloads or poor working conditions without complaint.
Kristine Sickels, CEO and co-founder of the consulting firm Mic Drop Workshop, agrees, emphasizing that unspoken pressures—like not asking for a promotion due to being overwhelmed, not setting boundaries, or swallowing criticism—can signal the need for change. Experts suggest that addressing these issues begins with identifying supportive individuals within the organization. Léonie Kennepohl recommends discussing concerns with a trusted colleague who has more experience and understands the workplace culture. These conversations can pave the way for more open and honest communication, potentially leading to positive changes in the work environment.
Workplace Emotional Suppression Linked to Career Challenges for Women
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