Halloween and childhood fears

During Halloween, fears of ghosts and monsters may be more common, especially among children who experience anxiety about supernatural beings, particularly in the dark at bedtime.

Parental responses to supernatural fears

Parents often struggle with how to respond to their children's fears—whether to engage with their child's imagination, check under the bed, pretend to chase away evil spirits, or explain that ghosts do not exist.

Psychologist's advice on handling fears

Ariane Calvo, a psychologist, suggests that the response should go beyond the simple opposition between reality and imagination. She emphasizes that children primarily seek to feel safe and protected by the person they trust, which is typically a parent.

Avoiding myths about ghosts

Calvo advises against perpetuating the myth of ghosts, even with good intentions, as it can be anxiety-inducing for children. Instead, parents are encouraged to adopt a confident posture and respond to their child's questions objectively and honestly.

Promoting safety and trust

This approach helps the child understand there is no danger and that the adult is there to support their development and curiosity. It is crucial that the parent does not come across as a liar or instill fear with beliefs that could be anxiety-provoking.

Respecting family beliefs

While acknowledging the child's fear is important, parents should convey a message of safety and presence rather than confirming or denying the existence of ghosts. Calvo notes that families may have their own beliefs about spirits, and if this is the family's stance, it is essential to convey a sense of well-being and strength to the child, ensuring they feel safe and protected from external threats.