A new dating trend called "chalant dating" is gaining attention for promoting honesty and transparency in relationships. The term, derived from the word "chalance" (which means "to be attentive") and contrasts with "nonchalant" (meaning indifferent or uninterested), encourages people to be more authentic and responsible in their romantic interactions. This approach is seen as a reaction to common dating issues like ghosting—when someone suddenly cuts off communication—and other toxic behaviors such as love bombing (overwhelming someone with affection to manipulate them) and micro-cheating (small betrayals in a relationship). It also addresses the growing "dating fatigue" many people feel, where the process of finding a partner can become stressful and exhausting. According to Aurore Malet-Karas, a doctor in neuroscience and sexology, chalant dating represents a cultural shift toward more thoughtful and intentional relationships. She explains that the idea is to share real expectations from the start, rather than pretending or hiding what one wants. This approach challenges the concept of "situationships," which are ambiguous, undefined relationships that can leave both people unclear about their roles or intentions. In pop culture, this shift is visible in shows like "Too Much," where characters are more open and sincere about their emotions, unlike earlier series like "Friends" or "Sex and the City," where relationships were often more playful or unclear. Recent surveys also reflect this change in attitudes. A 2025 study by Ipsos Digital for Meetic found that 90% of single people prioritize emotion, intuition, and feelings over other factors when looking for a partner. In response, dating apps are adapting their features to encourage healthier interactions. For example, Hinge introduced "Signals," a profile badge that highlights users who demonstrate attention and consistency, such as by reading profiles, leaving thoughtful comments, or responding to messages. Logan Ury, director of relationship science at Hinge, says these behaviors, once invisible, are now being recognized and rewarded. Meetic has launched a campaign called "Les rencontres en version originale" ("Meetings in Original Version") to promote dating where people can be themselves without playing roles or pretending. Bumble has also made changes, allowing all users to make the first move after a match, not just women, and encouraging users to "work" on the initial approach. According to Malet-Karas, these changes are evident in her work with singles, who are now more willing to take responsibility for their expectations. Whether looking for a long-term partner or casual encounters, people are more open about what they want and what they are willing to offer. This trend reflects a broader cultural shift where vulnerability is becoming more accepted, and honesty is seen as a way to save time and build more meaningful connections.