A 42-year-old man, who identifies as single and open to sexual exploration, recently shared a story about being caught masturbating by a neighbor who entered his yard while searching for a missing cat. The neighbor, described as "funny and sexy," was reportedly unfazed by the situation. The man found the encounter surprising but enjoyable and is now seeking advice on how to safely explore this particular kink without jeopardizing his career or personal reputation. Columnist Rich Juzwiak suggested options such as participating in masturbation clubs, known as "Jack and Jill" parties, or engaging in roleplay with a partner as ways to explore these interests in a more controlled and consensual environment. Another reader, in a long-term open marriage, described a situation where her husband began a relationship with a 21-year-old woman following a consensual threesome. The reader is conflicted about the age difference and is unsure if her husband’s actions are inappropriate. Columnist R.J. acknowledged her concerns about the power dynamics and the age gap, while noting that from a purely sexual standpoint, the age difference may not be inherently problematic. The columnist advised the reader to observe her husband’s behavior closely and determine whether he is acting in a predatory manner or simply engaging in consensual relationships with an adult. A third reader shared that her husband has a strong fixation on anal sex, an activity she is not interested in. She mentioned that he insists on engaging in it when she is intoxicated and has discovered his porn browsing history, which includes a significant amount of anal content. Columnist Jessica Stoya raised concerns about the potential for coercion and the risks associated with engaging in sexual activities while under the influence. She encouraged open communication between the couple about their sexual preferences and suggested exploring other activities that both partners enjoy, in order to foster a more satisfying and consensual sexual relationship.