A couple, where one partner identifies as female-to-male and the other is a cisgender man, is considering exploring a kink known as piss play or watersports, which involves urine in a consensual and playful way. The person with a female-to-male identity is unsure how to bring up the topic with their husband, fearing his reaction. The advice column encourages them to weigh the discomfort of having the conversation against the possibility of not exploring the kink at all. It also notes that their husband seems open to new experiences and is unlikely to judge them for their interest. The column offers safety tips, such as avoiding the ingestion of urine, which can carry bacteria and toxins, and suggests engaging in the activity in places where odor is less of a concern, like a shower or outdoors. Another reader, a 30-year-old woman, shared her experience with a 40-year-old man she was romantically involved with. The relationship was intense and felt genuine at first, but the man eventually withdrew without explanation, leaving the woman confused and heartbroken. The advice column suggests that the man may have been using the relationship as a way to cope with his existing long-term relationship. It explains that pursuing a new relationship while still committed to another can be emotionally complicated, and the man’s eventual withdrawal may have been a result of that conflict. The column advises the reader to accept that the relationship may not have been meant to last and to move forward with the understanding that the man may not have intended to leave his partner. A third reader hosts sex parties in a private home in a city and is looking for ways to avoid disturbing the neighbors. The reader mentions that their property is secure, with a high fence and no direct visibility into the yard. The advice column suggests not explicitly labeling the event as a sex party to reduce the risk of complaints. It recommends using white noise or music to mask any sounds and suggests hosting the first party as a test to gauge the neighborhood’s reaction. If there are any concerns, the reader could consider scaling back the event or moving it indoors to ensure privacy and minimize any potential disruptions.