Teasing strengthens relationship bonds

According to a report, teasing plays a significant role in maintaining a happy and stable relationship. While communication, sharing, admiration, and trust are commonly seen as vital, researchers have found that teasing can reinforce the sense of closeness between partners, though it has its boundaries.

Teasing from close partners feels more positive

A study published in Personal Relationships found that teasing helps create a sense of closeness in a relationship. The feeling of being close can influence how teasing is perceived, with teasing from a close partner seen as more positive and well-intentioned than from someone distant. This indicates that teasing can strengthen bonds, but only when used with close people.

Humor is key to relationship complicity

Humor plays an essential role in reinforcing a couple's closeness. Sharing laughter with a partner is a crucial element in forming a bond. However, how humor is used can vary depending on the quality of the relationship.

Positive humor correlates with relationship satisfaction

According to a study available on PubMed, people most satisfied with their relationships used more positive humor and less negative humor or avoidance. The study found that those very satisfied with their relationships used significantly less negative humor during conflicts than in pleasant situations. In contrast, people less satisfied with their relationships used similar amounts of negative humor in both conflict and pleasant situations.

Experts suggest ways to build relationship complicity

Couple therapist Myriam Bidaud, founder of Atout Couple, recommends cultivating curiosity about one's partner and organizing dates that encourage togetherness. Bidaud emphasizes that lasting relationships are not about reaching a fixed state but about appreciating the daily journey of the couple. Shared projects and goals are also advised to ensure a durable and healthy relationship.