A couple who have been married for about 30 years recently reached out to the How to Do It column with concerns about the impact of their wife’s long-term engagement in a practice known as "hotwifing." This involves the wife being sexually involved with other partners while remaining married. For the past seven years, she has been participating in this arrangement, and more recently, she has been temporarily withholding intercourse from her husband, a situation that has lasted for a year. Despite this, the couple continues to find excitement in their relationship, with the wife providing hand jobs but not full sexual intimacy. The column encourages the couple to have an open and honest conversation about their relationship, focusing on their shared understanding of connection, intimacy, and commitment. It suggests that they revisit their emotional and physical commitments and ensure they are both taking actions that maintain and strengthen these elements in their marriage. Another reader, concerned about the size of their penis, asked about the sensation of fullness during vaginal penetration and ways to enhance pleasure. The column acknowledges that while penetration can be a source of pleasure, it is not the only factor in sexual satisfaction for people with vaginas. The advice includes focusing on stimulating the lower front wall of the vagina, where the G-spot is located, and using sexual positions that apply pressure to the pelvic area. The column also recommends using fingers alongside the penis and applying extra lubricant to increase comfort and pleasure. A third reader asked for alternatives to leather for a partner who has a rash caused by wearing leather, a material often used in domination-style outfits. The column suggests trying materials such as latex or polyvinyl chloride (PVC), which are commonly used in similar fashion. However, it cautions that the individual should test these materials with small items first to ensure they do not cause a reaction. The column also emphasizes that the style and confidence of the wearer can be more impactful than the specific material used.