Author promotes marital exclusivity
Jeanne Bonin, 42, has published Je me donne à toi ! Petit éloge de l’exclusivité conjugale (editions Première Partie), a short story that promotes the idea of marital exclusivity as a foundation for emotional security and fulfillment. The book, written in a free and offbeat tone, was published in September 2026 and costs 9 euros. Bonin’s personal and professional background
Bonin, a married mother of four children and a career counselor in Tassin-La-Demi-Lune, near Lyon, argues that love within the intimacy of a strong couple strengthens spouses and supports the idea that being in love and faithful stimulates professional careers. She invites readers to rediscover the power of a marital engagement that secures, nourishes, and gives the necessary momentum to feel fully alive. Inspiration and creative process
In an interview, Bonin explained that the idea of writing the book came to her during a period of anger, inspired by a reflection from a person who was not directly addressed to her. She prayed and wrote the book in three days, entering a "tunnel of writing" with a clear scenario in her mind. She emphasized that she did not want another essay on marriage but something that was "sexy and without nonsense." Focus on recognition and emotional security
As a career counselor, Bonin noted that many of her clients, particularly those between 15 and 18 years old, have expectations of external recognition. She argues that the first place of recognition and tenderness should be within the home, in the couple, and in the relationship with one's partner or children. This tenderness provides energy and strength for work, consolidating and strengthening individuals. Care for relationships as self-care
Bonin advises taking great care of one's relationship, comparing it to the way people take care of their skin, body, and car with regular inspections. She references Saint François de Sales, saying one must take care of the body so the soul may enjoy it, and similarly, one must take care of one's relationship so the soul and deep heart may enjoy it. She identifies heroism and eroticism as the two pillars of a fulfilled marital life. Personal reflection on emotional security
Bonin, married for more than twenty years, reflects on the emotional security that comes from choosing one person, her husband Ludovic, to share her life. She notes that when a woman feels secure, she creates an ecosystem of security around her, providing strength that should not be underestimated. She quotes Saint Irénée of Lyon, emphasizing that "The glory of God is the living man," and that God wants people to be alive and joyful.
