Nicole Kidman has spoken openly about her belief that parents should not see themselves as their children's best friends, emphasizing instead the importance of being a guide and mentor. This perspective was shared during a recent interview with Australia's Daily Telegraph while she attended a special screening of her new film, Practical Magic 2, in Sydney. Joining her was her 15-year-old daughter, Faith. Kidman clarified that she is not "mates" with her daughters, Sunday and Faith, but rather a "rock" for them, highlighting her role as a parent rather than an equal.
Kidman’s eldest daughter, Sunday, who is now a professional model, has also confirmed that their relationship is not based on being best friends. Despite appearing close, Sunday has said their dynamic reflects their mother’s parenting philosophy. The two daughters accompanied Kidman to Paris Fashion Week last October for the Chanel Spring/Summer 2026 show, shortly after their parents’ separation in September 2023 after nearly two decades of marriage. Sunday noted that their parents had strict rules, including a ban on pursuing modeling until she turned 16 and a requirement that school always come first.
Child development expert Dr. Amanda Gummer explained that while more relaxed parenting styles can be beneficial, it is crucial for parents to maintain their role as adults. She warned that some parents might seek closeness to meet their own emotional needs, which could blur the boundaries of the parent-child relationship. However, Dr. Emma Svanberg, a clinical psychologist, supports Kidman’s approach. She pointed out that authoritative parenting—characterized by warmth and clear boundaries—has been shown to help children develop securely and become more resilient. In contrast, permissive parenting, which avoids conflict and treats children as equals, may lead to less favorable outcomes, such as difficulties in social skills or academic performance.
Dr. Claire Hart, an associate professor of Social and Personality Psychology at the University of Southampton, added that while being close to a child can be positive, prioritizing friendship over parental responsibilities can be harmful. She emphasized that parents must sometimes make decisions that a child may not like and that children benefit from having guidance and a sense of adult responsibility. Kidman’s approach reflects a balance between affection and authority, aiming to provide her children with both support and structure.
Nicole Kidman Advocates for Parental Boundaries Over Friendship with Children
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